Congratulations, you are engaged! Now that the initial shock has worn off and you are able to peel your eyes away from the sparkly ring on your finger, you start thinking to yourself…. Now What? So here is a quick pre-wedding checklist that will help you keep things organized.
Set A Date: First and foremost set a date, after congratulations, people will say, “let me see your ring…” And trust me when I say the first thing people will ask you is when is the wedding? It will save you a ton of headache if you and your partner have come up with a specific answer like thinking this winter or next summer sounds nice… Even though invites don’t go out until much much later, but this will ensure that none of your favorite people are missing on your big day.
Fix A Budget: BUDGET! BUDGET! BUDGET! This will determine the size, location and pretty much every single element to incorporate into your big day. It’s normal if you budget moves little bit here and there but try and stick to it. Do not overspend Brides as it will help keep your dad’s blood pressure in check.
Pick Your Wedding Style: Close your eyes and imagine your fantasy wedding, Is it a romantic candlelit ceremony in a hotel or you walking barefoot down the beach, it is modern, classic, romantic, traditional, vintage or all out glam. Spend some time gathering inspirations to figure out exactly what you want and what you don’t want.
Hire a wedding planner: Hire a wedding planner or not think about some of the things you will have to do in the lead up to your wedding from organizing the florist to negotiating with caterers and really reflect on whether you will need a little bit of extra help. So bridezillas you know exactly who you are. It’s OK to let go of a little bit of responsibility and enjoy the ride. Just make sure if you are hiring a wedding planner you have room for it in your budget.
Lock Your Caterer: Hang On, it;s not quite time to say yes to the dress yet… my next point is catering. Trust me when I say a year from your wedding people will only remember two things, one- What you wore? and second- What they ate? The best caterers are super busy during wedding season. So make sure to them as early as possible.
Jewellery And Clothing: In that order always, pick your wedding jewelry first and then the clothes to match. Jewelry is a a much bigger investment, you wear your wedding lehenga once but you can wear your jewelry forever. Don’t forget your post wedding life though when buying your trousseau. Imagine What your life is going to be like after you are married and then create custom jewels to match.
Some More Checklists: It’s not over yet … have you booked your hair and makeup artist? It’s really important to do trial before making a final decision. Have you thought about whether you are going to do your decor by yourself or with the help of a decorator. Have you thought about invitations, gifts, favors for your side and the in-laws, friends and extended family. Not to mention the Pandit, Band, choreographer, Ghodiwala, Photographer and Videographer these are all super important parts of the checklist.
Final Suggestion: The more you get done earlier the more you get to actually relax and enjoy the lead up to your wedding. I can’t tell you How many brides, grooms and their family members hardly remember the wedding functions because of all the running around and coordination they have to do. So start early, stay organized, remember to pamper yourself and just breathe. The journey should be as fun as the destination.
Brides, I hope you found this article helpful place to start.
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